It’s a well-known fact that people who experience high levels of stress tend to get sick more than others. Combine stress with lack of sleep and poor nutrition, and our immune system’s ability to naturally protect us against infection and disease is greatly reduced.
A great way to help reduce stress and improve your resilience is to increase your physical activity. That’s right – good old exercise.
Physical activity makes us feel more positive and confident by raising our endorphins – chemicals that can trigger a positive feeling in the body. People who are physically active often talk about the ‘runner’s high’ – the feeling of euphoria after a good workout.
And with its ability to help us relax and sleep better, exercise is now commonly prescribed by doctors treating patients for anxiety and depression.
But it’s not always easy to fit in regular exercise. How many of us have started an exercise routine and let it slip as life gets in the way?
Thankfully, you don’t need to commit to a strenuous workout, or an expensive gym membership, to reap the benefits of physical activity. Just a small amount of movement can help reduce stress, increase energy levels and even your ability to concentrate and focus, making you more productive throughout the day.
Here are some simple, but effective ways to get us moving:
Talk to a colleague face to face instead of emailing them. Your communication is likely to be more effective and you’ll develop a closer working relationship at the same time.
When shopping, park further away from the entrance. You’ll add extra steps and longer time carrying those weights (shopping bags), without going too far out of your way.
Schedule a walking meeting. Choose a nice beach or park to walk through if you can to make it more pleasant. You’ll find that walking together, in the same direction at about the same pace and speed, naturally helps your unconscious minds to be more collaborative and see the world from similar perspectives.
If you catch public transport, get off a stop earlier. This helps you fit in an extra walk without it feeling like too much of a burden.
Move while on the phone. If we stand up when we’re making calls, we sound clearer, more confident and we often feel mentally more capable.
Make cleaning a fun activity. Break it up into smaller tasks and delegate to family members or colleagues. Why not turn it into a group relay? One person does a first step e.g. empty the top shelf of the dishwasher, then goes and taps the next person to take a two minute stretch break and empty the bottom shelf. Before long everyone in the office has gotten up and moved and the kitchen is clean!
Stretch at your desk. Hold a simple upper body stretch at your desk for 3-5 seconds or get up and do a full body stretch. Stretching brings proper blood flow and nutrient supply to our muscles and tissues, especially our brain. This can help prevent fatigue, discomfort and reduce the risk of injury, stiffness, aches and pains and even lower our risk of osteoarthritis.
Get out of your comfort zone. I have a friend who is a computer programmer. He has a brilliant solution to getting stumped with programming problems – he goes rollerblading in the park. It gets him outside, in the fresh air, away from the problems at hand. Enabling his conscious mind to focus on something completely different gives his unconscious mind the opportunity to think through the problem. Often, he will arrive back at the office having worked out the solution.
Exercise with others. Having a gym partner or belonging to an exercise group can help keep you accountable as we’re more likely to turn up when others are relying on us being there. It’s also a wonderful way to connect with others and nurture our minds at the same time.
Other things we can do to nurture ourselves include:
Massage. Previously considered a ‘luxury’, massage is now rapidly gaining popularity as a way to improve mental and physical wellbeing. A remedial massage can undo knots in your muscles, decrease aches and pains in your body, boost our immune system, lower heart rate and blood pressure and increase blood circulation, helping our body to eliminate waste and increase access to fresh nutrients. As for the mental benefits, massage can relax your mind and de-stress you.
Epsom salt bath. The magnesium in the salts seeps into muscles, relaxing and rejuvenating them. A foot bath after standing for a long period can help restore our feet and calves and help our mind unwind too.
What are some of the ways you nurture yourself, or others already? Let us know in the comments below.
Instagram will have us believe that the path to an excellent life involves green smoothies and yoga poses on the beach. While that may work for some, for most people, building a strong and healthy body and mind involves a much greater investment of time and energy.
Although this sounds daunting, don’t be put off, because the rewards are huge.
According to Gallup research, people who invest time into building a healthy mind and body are kinder, happier and more forgiving.
They have more energy, find it easier to maintain a positive attitude, learn new and more difficult things, can concentrate longer and are generally better problem solvers.
And importantly, they deal better with stress, trauma and depression.
In this three-part series, we give you some easy, practical tips on how to feel more refreshed and energised so you can focus on creating your excellent life.
Part 1: Notice
By doing things that we excel in on a regular basis, we can maximise our sense of achievement, satisfaction, confidence and contribution. This can make us feel like contributing even more, further enhancing our productivity.
How to tackle those annoying tasks
We all have those tasks that we need to complete, but don’t particularly enjoy doing. Household chores, work emails, exercise… I could go on!
A practical tip to help you tackle those unavoidable tasks is to notice what time of day you feel most awake, strong and capable.
If you feel best first thing in the morning, great! Get those less inspiring tasks done and out of the way early so that you can enjoy the rest of the day. If it’s later in the day, make sure you set aside time then to get those items ticked off the list.
The next thing to take note of are your priorities. This will help you focus on the important items rather than what’s urgent. This can help you work smarter rather than harder and feel more in control. We can’t manage time, but we can manage our priorities.
You may have seen the idea of prioritising important tasks illustrated with a container being filled with large rocks then topped up with smaller rocks, then pebbles, then sand is added to fill in the tiniest gaps. And just when you thought nothing else could fit, a cup full of water is tipped in, to trickle into all the crevices. The point being, if you begin with the Big Rocks, your highest priorities, you can fit everything else in. But if you start with the pebbles and the sand, you’ll never get to the Big Rocks.
To illustrate this, here is a personal story about my husband and I, and our garden. Our garden had been neglected for a few months and was a complete mess. Feeling overwhelmed, my husband was stressed out and paralysed as he couldn’t see where to start.
To help remedy the situation, we created a list of all the things he could see that needed attending to. To our amazement, once it was all down on paper, he got his head back. His sense of overwhelm started to clear and he could make sense of what he wanted to achieve. We prioritised the list, by looking for just a couple of things that would make the biggest difference and that was enough to get us started. He was also able to delegate jobs to me and clearly communicate what he wanted done in a way that I could understand.
Another way to trick ourselves into success is to create 20 minute sessions. This allows us to work through larger projects that might look daunting. Once we’ve reached the end of the 20 minutes, we can choose to do another session, but we don’t get stuck there.
Breaking tasks up can be invaluable. Each component of the job, in its smallest possible piece forms a list. Completing these smaller tasks seems doable, almost a no brainer. They can often fit into these 20 minute bites and ticking them off can get addictive.
These 20 minute sessions can be interspersed with breaks to clear your head and re-energise. A few ways you can utilise these spaces include:
Meditation or visualisation. You can do this on the train or bus, a walking mediation while you’re walking through the park or by the water. Or just by sitting quietly and focusing on a positive, uplifting statement.
Books, podcasts or music. Reading or listening to something uplifting can be a great way to keep your mind focused and positive. For example, reading about successful people who’ve already crossed those tricky minefields ahead of us can help us gain ideas, perspective and confidence.
Incorporating daily movement. Going for a walk or even doing stretches at your desk are quick and easy techniques that allow our unconscious mind time to process, assimilate and file the previous experience and help us mentally put it away, rather than dwell on it.
Einstein said “Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid.” In other words, no one is good at everything, so it’s important not to judge everyone by the same standards.
Let’s start by taking a moment to notice what we’re good at – our own personal strengths. Think for a brief moment about a time when you felt you were operating at your best.
Are you more likely to be:
Dealing with big picture challenges, or does getting into the small details light you up?
Energised by starting a new project, or by doing and completing an existing one?
Focusing mainly on tasks, or do you come alive when you are dealing with people?
Buzzed by doing the researching, analysing or refining of concepts or when you are sharing, presenting or selling these concepts?
Now that you are aware of some of your strengths, notice where and how you already use them, whether you’re at home, at work, in your local community or engrossed in a hobby?
How might you be able to utilise them even more?
When do you notice that you’re operating at your best? Let us know in the comments below.
Join us, 29th April 2019 to make a few simple changes, just for 10 days. A quick way to reset or boost your metabolism, aid detoxification and feel great. Allowing you to Restore * Refresh * Re-Energise
In this busy and stressful world, we can’t escape the multitude of chemicals in our food, water, air, personal care and cleaning products and even home furniture and furnishings. Our body’s are constantly bombarded with stimuli, stress and chemicals and are therefore constantly active – filtering, neutralising and removing metabolic waste products and added toxins.
Even when our body’s are effective at this and coping enough to stay healthy, it still makes sense to help support this amazing system. We can do this by including simple, regular activities that help reduce build up and therefore reduce the load placed on our digestive, immune and detoxification processes. This also optimises repair and rebuilding processes to maximise our strength, mobility, function, comfort and energy. What’s more, it helps to minimise and maybe even reverse “age related” wrinkles, hormone imbalances and even, symptoms of chronic illnesses.
It’s a combination of core principles, focusing on 4 main areas
We then, split this into 10 daily modules, detailing each topic and containing simple, actionable steps
Simple and easy to implement, it’s a matter of small actions performed daily to produce a transformational outcome.
It’s the application of effective action steps within these 4 areas that allows massive change. Shifting the body to a more alkaline state which translates directly to
This is a 10 day program designed to do 2 main things
provide you with a simple 10 day detoxification process that you can keep coming back to, whenever you feel you need it (yearly, or seasonally)
help you create healthful habits that you can implement into your everyday life.
Optimising what you put in, to Maximise what you get out – To keep you energised, looking good and feeling great. No matter your age!
Please be aware
If you have a specific issue, it is best that you undertake this program under the guidance of your primary healthcare professional.
It is a short detoxification program, not a “weight loss” regime. It will give you quick results to boost your metabolism and your energy, and help you feel more comfortable as well as have less pain, and it is highly likely you will lose fat and build stamina within this short time
While you could follow this basic program to allowing you to lose fat and build tone, stamina, strength and flexibility. A healthful and sustainable weight loss program will take a minimum 3 months. Realise that we are a product of what we have eaten, done and thought over the past 3-12 months. We replace every cell in the body, but this takes months and in some cases years to complete. While we feed our body the right things, we will replace each cell with healthier ones… an exciting and empowering idea! Consistency, Patience and Belief is KEY
Pelvic pain and dysfunction part 3: 7 tips to nip that pain in the butt
In part 1 and part 2, we discussed the symptoms and causes of chronic pain and the basics of an effective treatment and management plan. Let’s discuss what you can do NOW to help improve your situation.
While effective treatment and management requires a multi-faceted approach, there are a number of lifestyle modifications that can be easily implemented to start reducing triggers, allowing the nerves more mobility and reducing the nervous system tension in order to directly impact the negative cycle and start increasing comfort now.
Tip # 1:
Minimise activities that
tend to trigger and aggravate pudendal and perineal nerve irritation such as:
riding a bicycle (especially for long periods)
jumping (for example, on a trampoline)
lifting weights (anything over 5 kg is too much)
anything that causes intense pain (if 0 is no
pain and 10 is the worst pain imaginable, do not go over a pain scale of 7/10).
Tip # 2:
For any activity where
you know pain comes on after a certain period of time (for example sitting for
more than 5 minutes):
Ensure that you set an alarm and only sit for 4
minutes at any one time.
When the alarm goes off – get up!
go to the toilet
or get a drink or stretch before continuing to sit
sitting again, ensure the alarm is set for another 4 minutes.
Tip # 3:
Ensure you have good
posture in any activities you perform for a prolonged time (more than a few
minutes). Get ergonomic advice if required.
ensure that your knees sit at the same level or
slightly lower than your hip joints.
allow your pelvis to rotate forward slightly, keeping
a slight extension in your lower back – this happens naturally when your knees
are lower than your hips, helping to keep the natural spinal curves.
ensures your back is “straight” with your head sitting directly over your
also helps your shoulders to sit in a good position, not rounded forward or
held up high towards your ears.
Make sure that you don’t lean on your elbows or
put too much pressure on your wrists (or you will get elbow or wrist strain injuries)
(it also pushes your shoulders up and tends to make you lean to one side).
ensure that your feet are flat on the floor
(use a floor stool if required for comfort)
ensure the seat is cushioned a little
(especially if you have pudendal nerve pain) – you can use a doughnut ring if
pain is more severe.
Tip # 4:
Lie with your legs up
the wall for 5-10 minutes in the evenings
lie on your back, on the floor with your
shoulders relaxed and rotated backwards
get your bottom as close to the wall as
possible. Adding a cushion underneath your bottom to raise the angle of your pelvis.
place your legs up the wall and relax (you could
use a meditation or relaxation app at the same time)
only stay for 5 minutes initially, but if it
gets painful, stop. Aim to get to 10 minutes per night.
allows pain relief in the pelvic area – for
vaginal issues, haemorrhoids, pudendal nerve pain, period pain and also assists
with reducing pressure associated with incontinence issues
increases blood return to heart, therefore
helps with venous return in general and varicose veins/haemorrhoids etc
allows the spine to relax and lengthen after a
day of compression forces from standing and sitting.
Tip # 5:
Avoid straining on the
To avoid constipation, it’s important to keep
hydrated, eat healthy fruit and vegetable fibre, exercise regularly and use a natural
laxative if necessary (avoid stimulant laxatives).
Don’t sit for extended periods as this
stretches the ligaments and increases the pressure in the wrong spots
increasing likelihood of pain around the buttock (inferior cluneal nerve) or
haemorrhoids. If it’s not coming, stop and go for a little walk and come back
when you feel more ready.
Aim to sit correctly on the toilet (not squat
over it) as this tends to constrict rather than relax the area, increasing
downward pressure and reducing ease of toileting.
Tip # 6:
Perform a relaxation
and strengthening program for the pelvic floor muscles daily.
massaging the perineum to help relax the pelvic floor muscles, relax the
nervous system and improve circulation in the area
bathroom or a private area, use a small amount of unscented, natural oil
(coconut, olive or jojoba are best)
area right in the middle – between your anus and your vagina in women or base
of the penis in men
fingers with the oil and gently rub that central area in a clockwise motion for
gently rub in a counter clockwise motion for another 20 rotations.
Use a simplified Kegel-reverse
Kegel pelvic floor exercise to help your pelvic floor re-learn to strengthen
its contraction as well as relax when contraction is not needed (many issues
are due to an over-tense pelvic floor).
stand with good posture, feeling your head being pulled up in the centre, your
shoulders relaxed and back a little, your chest “out”, your natural back curves
present and not accentuated and equal pressure either through both sit bones or
through the front and back of both feet.
breathe in, allow your pelvic floor to relax – feeling that centre point
(located in the previous exercise) drop, and breath in for a count of 4-5.
breathe out, allow your pelvic floor to gently contract and pull together –
feeling that centre point gently squeeze together and up towards your pelvic
organs and breathe out holding that squeeze for a count of 6-7.
Tip # 7:
activities. Some people find that sex is painful or that afterwards, symptoms
seem to worsen.
Always use a gentle lubricant (that works for
you – jojoba oil is great)
Using a relaxation technique may be of benefit
Play around with positions to find what is most
comfortable for you.
If you would like to chat about your situation, drop
us an email, call, or book an appointment with Alexis.
In part 1, we shared some of the causes and symptoms of pelvic dysfunction. In part 2, we discuss chronic pain (as compared to an acute condition) and why chronic pain can be so complicated to deal with effectively. It’s important to understand what’s going on in your body first, so that you can work out the steps you need to take in order to help heal yourself. It also helps you feel more confident in your approach and in the fact that improvement CAN happen, as well as give you motivation to keep going (healing has good and bad days and times when it feels like nothing is changing, then suddenly, but only after consistent action, things improve and you suddenly realise, the pain you “always” had is no longer there).
Pelvic dysfunction is a complicated subject, because:
There are so
many variations of pelvic dysfunctions and symptoms.
multiple possible causes and a large number of associated factors and triggers.
taboo subject so most people don’t want to talk about it.
don’t generally ask their GP or health practitioner for help for the above
reason and don’t realise that there is anything that can be done to help.
don’t talk to their physical/manual therapists (such as their Osteopath,
Chiropractor or Physiotherapist) as they don’t expect that lifestyle factors
and muscle imbalances can be an easily treated part of the solution.
Because of these above
issues, it often becomes a chronic pain condition. But what exactly is a chronic
The definition of chronic
pain is any pain that extends beyond the expected healing time for an injury.
Generally, it’s accepted that most tissues have healed by 12 weeks. So, any
pain that has continued for longer than 3 months is chronic pain. Conversely,
acute pain is any pain condition that has resulted from a direct injury and is
still within its expected tissue healing time (thus any pain less than 3 months
The brain is a pain
modulating unit. That means that any pain stimulus, via nerves, alerts the
brain to a potential issue and the brain then uses all the information it can
gather before deciding if there is a problem or a potential problem and how
dangerous it is. The intensity of the pain we feel is based on the brain’s
interpretation of the level of injury or danger at hand. The information the
brain uses to decide is vast and includes things like past experience, imminent
danger in our surroundings (such as a car coming straight for you) and our fear
Because of this, the
brain is able to turn up or down the volume of pain you feel based on its need
to keep you safe. Generally, the more threat there is to further harm, the
louder the pain signals one feels. Yet, because the brain’s job is to keep us
safe, it can turn down the level of pain to allow necessary action, hence the
“apparent paradox” in stories you may have heard when for example a person has
badly broken their leg, yet managed to walk many kilometres to get to help or
run from an explosion etc.
However, when pain
continues for extended periods, the wiring in the brain for that location
begins to change. Just as a dirt path used over and over again gets deeper, so
does the neural pathway. This means that the brain becomes hyper aware of that
area of the body and is over sensitive to any nerve input that comes from that
location, alerting us to potential injury, via pain, even if there is no risk.
Can you remember a
time when you got a cut on your finger and it became inflamed? That area may
have begun to feel painful even at the slightest touch such as the gentle
swiping of fabric across it? In fact, even the adjacent finger sometimes feels
painful, for no apparent reason. This is an example of sensitisation.
This is further
intensified by our interpretation of the situation, such as how bad the injury
is, our belief that any movement that causes pain is in fact worsening the
injury and slowing or preventing healing, the level to which our injury has
been affecting our daily life and functioning, and our fear that this situation
will never end and might only get worse.
As you can see, the
brain collects information from many places and can be influenced by many
factors including our individual interpretation of what is happening to us.
Thus, we feel increased pain when
our general levels of stress are high
we avoid all activities that hurt (including
ones that help heal) because we believe they are damaging us
we fear having pain in general – because
that there is something wrong and we are making it worse
understand the biology of our situation
that we’ll never improve and we catastrophise the worst about what that might
mean for our future
afraid that there is something seriously wrong with us.
These factors make
treating chronic pain more difficult because in fact the tissues, while they
may not be functioning correctly are not “damaged” anymore, so one cannot just
deal with the “damaged” tissues nor just the musculoskeletal imbalances that
are perpetuating the functional symptoms (such as reduced strength or
management and treatment must therefore deal with as many of the above-mentioned
types of psychological aspects as well as the physical factors. This requires
education (about pain and the specific process happening in one’s own body),
lifestyle modification, minimising triggers, reducing stress, increasing neural
relaxation, education and techniques for learning to deal with always having
pain (in some cases), rehabilitation exercises and more. Further, all of these
components are unique to the individual, so body awareness, support and
guidance, and some trial and error are required to build the correct plan of
action. Given this complicated and individual nature of chronic pain, I hope
the importance of a multi-factorial approach, starting with education and body
awareness, is clear.
Once we understand the
injury we have, the biology of pain and what is happening inside us, and which
activities, if any, to avoid, our fear is reduced. We can also be confident in
a stretching and strengthening program and doing activities that cause pain as
we understand the difference between hurt and harm. This gives us control,
piece of mind and discipline to continue the healing activities required to
balance the tissues in the area and re-wire the brain to reduce its pain alert
system. Further, we can understand the reason behind any lifestyle, habitual
activity and postural modifications as well as stress reduction techniques
required, making compliance easier.
Ok, so it’s
complicated, where do I go for help?
A practitioner who has some specific knowledge
about pelvic pain and dysfunction is important (potentially an Osteopath,
Chiropractor, Physiotherapist or even Acupuncturist – but you need to ask). A
good practitioner can:
help you deal with the musculoskeletal
imbalances and give you exercises
discuss and explain chronic pain with you and
how you can use techniques and exercises to help re-wire your brain
assist with neuro-feedback, to ensure that you
are using your pelvic floor correctly and give you both pelvic floor
strengthening AND relaxation exercises
give advice on correct toileting techniques and
support and training for lifestyle interventions to treat different types of
incontinence issues (urge and stress)
assist with medicated creams, medications and
referral to surgical (laser etc) interventions IF and only if necessary (generally
a GP or gynaecologist – but you need to ask specifically, and I would recommend
seeing a specialist gynaecologist for this type of thing as with a practitioner
at Sydney’s WHRIA clinic who are researchers and leaders in this field and have
minimal invasive and best results-based interventions).
If you would like to chat about your situation, drop
us an email, call, or book an appointment with Alexis.
Stay tuned for part 3
where we share 7 simple tips to improve your situation NOW.